This is such a difficult place to be, and at the same time, know that you're not alone. Naturally, as a parent you want to be able to give your child the experiences that others in your circle partake in. I can share that from my own experience, when I was younger and my AD was so bad, all water made my skin so irritated that I was more than happy to take a pass, and I don't have any regrets. Now, as an adult, I can do things that I didn't do when I was younger. Perhaps have a chat with your son, and see if he would prefer to partake in activities such as surfing, even if it may irritate his skin, or sit it out and find another activity that you can spend together with him. You never know, you may discover some new interests or hobbies that you didn't know you or your son enjoy. Let us know how it goes! Chava B. Moderator & Contributor