this is a great question since we all cope so differently, I imagine! I know I personally have to get a lot more rest during a flare up, and that includes meditation, time in nature, etc. Any way to decrease my stress helps, essentially. Also, lots of ICE for the itching, and antihistamines if needed. Other than that, a big thing for me has been acceptance and just learning to ride the ups and downs of this condition and do my best to accept and embrace all parts of it. -Nina (AtopicDermatitis.net Team Member)